The hardest part in life is making relationship work. No matter if it is with your family, friends or with your significant other. But it truly is, especially with your significant other. But what you always should remember is that, when you are facing struggles on your own, you may want to use that significant other to throw your sorrows on, because you think it would be easier than dealing with them by yourself. The truth is, it never is. Because deep down inside the only person you need is that person that is willing to stick with you and fight through those struggles. Doesn't matter how terrified you may look at the person you love, or how disappointed you may be or they may be. If the love is strong enough, it will over power. You will fight it and you will get through it. Because that is what it is all about. That is why you find the someone, your puzzel piece to struggle with, to know that as much love you can give one and other, as much wear and tear you give. A bump on the road, is just a bump on the road. There will be plenty of bumps on the road! Don't make them a regular thing, but they do happen. Don't compare yourself to other relationship, because your relationship is unique and different to all other relationships. ALL RELATIONSHIP HAVE STRUGGLES, if they dont! They are boring and EMPTY. I'm not saying that the rain days should overtake the sunshine, but a rainday now and then is better than turning it in to a desert. and we all know, that you can't a rainbow without a little rain.
I got you :)